Mother!!!

Mother...the title says it all..She is one person of whom we take the maximum advantage when she is around but is the person who is missed the most when she is not around.She works day in and day out selflessly without expecting anything in return at all.The very nucleus of a person's life is in his mother.What happens then,if the nucleus disappears??

This is what happened to one of my very close friends,Sudha.She was not just merely a friend to me but more than that and the relation she shared with her mother was beyond explaination.It is indeed very hard to see such a mother and daughter in today's world.They were literally friends and expected to remain like that for a long period of time until that fateful day,02.03.09.That dreadful night when her mom left for eternal abode.

Sudha broke down,a break down whose intensity cannot be measured by any instrument and cannot be defined by words.Her nucleus had gone,gone forever and is just a handful of ash...

Being present there physically yet as an outsider I could sense it hitting on my face directly.That is when I really understood and appreciated the title 'Mother'.How many times have I taken my mother for granted?How many times have I back answered her?How many times have I snapped at her??How many times have I got irritated with her??Have I anytime appreciated her for what she did??All these thoughts started flowing like water let open from a pipe..Do I need something tragic to happen to her in order to understand her???

Sudha is one person who understood the value,the realy value and meaning of Mother and her Mother is indeed lucky to get her as her daughter.I do not think our world has a large number of Sudhas.We live in a world where children talk about paying their mothers for keeping them in their wombs??

None of this stupid,elite,educated bunch of losers will ever understand or get the actual essence of Mother...