Sunday, March 8, 2009
Mother!!!
Mother...the title says it all..She is one person of whom we take the maximum advantage when she is around but is the person who is missed the most when she is not around.She works day in and day out selflessly without expecting anything in return at all.The very nucleus of a person's life is in his mother.What happens then,if the nucleus disappears??
This is what happened to one of my very close friends,Sudha.She was not just merely a friend to me but more than that and the relation she shared with her mother was beyond explaination.It is indeed very hard to see such a mother and daughter in today's world.They were literally friends and expected to remain like that for a long period of time until that fateful day,02.03.09.That dreadful night when her mom left for eternal abode.
Sudha broke down,a break down whose intensity cannot be measured by any instrument and cannot be defined by words.Her nucleus had gone,gone forever and is just a handful of ash...
Being present there physically yet as an outsider I could sense it hitting on my face directly.That is when I really understood and appreciated the title 'Mother'.How many times have I taken my mother for granted?How many times have I back answered her?How many times have I snapped at her??How many times have I got irritated with her??Have I anytime appreciated her for what she did??All these thoughts started flowing like water let open from a pipe..Do I need something tragic to happen to her in order to understand her???
Sudha is one person who understood the value,the realy value and meaning of Mother and her Mother is indeed lucky to get her as her daughter.I do not think our world has a large number of Sudhas.We live in a world where children talk about paying their mothers for keeping them in their wombs??
None of this stupid,elite,educated bunch of losers will ever understand or get the actual essence of Mother...
This is what happened to one of my very close friends,Sudha.She was not just merely a friend to me but more than that and the relation she shared with her mother was beyond explaination.It is indeed very hard to see such a mother and daughter in today's world.They were literally friends and expected to remain like that for a long period of time until that fateful day,02.03.09.That dreadful night when her mom left for eternal abode.
Sudha broke down,a break down whose intensity cannot be measured by any instrument and cannot be defined by words.Her nucleus had gone,gone forever and is just a handful of ash...
Being present there physically yet as an outsider I could sense it hitting on my face directly.That is when I really understood and appreciated the title 'Mother'.How many times have I taken my mother for granted?How many times have I back answered her?How many times have I snapped at her??How many times have I got irritated with her??Have I anytime appreciated her for what she did??All these thoughts started flowing like water let open from a pipe..Do I need something tragic to happen to her in order to understand her???
Sudha is one person who understood the value,the realy value and meaning of Mother and her Mother is indeed lucky to get her as her daughter.I do not think our world has a large number of Sudhas.We live in a world where children talk about paying their mothers for keeping them in their wombs??
None of this stupid,elite,educated bunch of losers will ever understand or get the actual essence of Mother...
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Sister!!!!
I know its been a very very long time since I updated my blog..But it was just because of the famous disease I am suffering from:laziness..But today I decided to overcome it and start writing again..The reason being very very special...Yesterday evning I saw one of the most beautiful sights in my whole Norwegian trip:the scene of a brother and sister cuddling each other..they were very genuine and were not notehred about the people looking at them..they were showing others that this relation means a lot to them..The sister was none other than the sweet and loving Charlotte and the brother was her little brother Henrik..It was a delightful sight but a saddening one too...As I was just taken back to my childhood days when I wished for a hug,a good word,a loving pat from my elder sister...I know I should not be keeping revenge in my heart not even hatred..But it so happens that certain wounds cannot be healed...i dont want to blame anyone here...Maybe she was right in what she did and I was wrong in some aspect..I dont know...I always do envy any brother sister relationship and pray that they would not have a fate like mine....I am very lucky to get a wonderful person as sister to me,Komala or Bachi as I call her..When I say this I can see certain eyebrows raising as its become a trend to call people brother or sister...Sorry this is an exception...We are not an unusual bro-sis....We do have our share of good times and bad times...She has all the qualities of what I expected of a sister...She is always there when I need her and always ready to start a thought process when I am in dead need of one....I have also tried my best to keep up to her expectations of being a very very good bro....God forbid something negative happens to this relation...In this Norwegian trip she is the best thing that could happen to me...I stopping here as I do not know what to write more....It feels like a huge burden is taken down....My eyes are wanting to cry but..................
Thursday, October 11, 2007
Autumn Vacations:Kick Start!!!!
The exciting journey to the capital city,the biggest city in Norway,the most famous city in the world.etc etc started at 12pm...........It was actually a very difficult as well as touching moment to leave everyone and go away for 10 days....I knw it is a short time and will get bak very soon....But thots of leaving Sund forever also flashed in....If just leavin the school for a short period was so difficult...Wat will happen after 10 months????All the surrounding eyes was filled with joy as well as sadness.....But the last sight will never get erased from my memory whish is the scene of the three Guardian and Wonderful Angels of school,the Bissene....Mats,Håkon and Chalotte...It was so touching to c them standing in the centre chotta bheedi ada getting wet and holdin each other titely......Odellia the other Guardian as well as Wonderful Angel was missin....N it cud definitely be made out......U guys are always the best and will also remain so......Apart frm this the fareweel hugs frm Marcus,Anders Hals,Gro,Tomas,other Sund folkens.etc were also very special..............Will miss you guys too.....You knw.......You knw........Its so difficultish toish stayish withoutish cingish uish forish a small timish..........
The travel frm Røra to Trondheim was really nice bt the time ran out very fast and it was time to say har det to bachi and boo.....Afterwards the real travel for me begun alongwith kaja and audun.......It was mixture of feelings,readin,learnin norsk,,mesgin,etc.....nad hw can i forget the enjoyin of the sight of snow outside..........Then we reached....the journey ended and we were in the capital city:::OSLO:.......We were received by warm greeting frm kajas mom and thn a trip to the home in the mouse shaped car.........After reaching hme i met up wid her dad and brothers.......It was such a warm feeling and I really felt at home....Seriously I felt so very happy......After the shower had pizza and talked to all in my litt norsk an english.......
The travel frm Røra to Trondheim was really nice bt the time ran out very fast and it was time to say har det to bachi and boo.....Afterwards the real travel for me begun alongwith kaja and audun.......It was mixture of feelings,readin,learnin norsk,,mesgin,etc.....nad hw can i forget the enjoyin of the sight of snow outside..........Then we reached....the journey ended and we were in the capital city:::OSLO:.......We were received by warm greeting frm kajas mom and thn a trip to the home in the mouse shaped car.........After reaching hme i met up wid her dad and brothers.......It was such a warm feeling and I really felt at home....Seriously I felt so very happy......After the shower had pizza and talked to all in my litt norsk an english.......
Sunday, October 7, 2007
Autumn thoughts
The temperature outside must be around 5 - 6 degree c and the air around me is thick and stale. I have not stepped out for almost two days now... the sun seems to be doing a guest appearance like kajol in karan johar's movie!
hmm.... so staring at the sea through the window...i tell myself, perhaps Norway is not all that beautiful. My discovery, this beautiful piece of nature has suddenly begun to show its duller side. The autumn might look colourful with all the different shades on the trees and the thick fog but it also appears as if it looms the darkness and the melancholy the winter was to bring soon.
Suddenly my wandering senses met something so unusual... i heard my friend, Erica say to me " There is nothing like bad weather, there is just bad clothes" . It was an old Norwegian saying . And i smile to myself . why is it that we fail to appreciate life? why are we so stubborn to think the way we do and never try to meet challenges differently? Is it an attempt to shove ur guilt in someone else's sleeve?would we ever stop by our busy lives to answer such questions?
hmm.... so staring at the sea through the window...i tell myself, perhaps Norway is not all that beautiful. My discovery, this beautiful piece of nature has suddenly begun to show its duller side. The autumn might look colourful with all the different shades on the trees and the thick fog but it also appears as if it looms the darkness and the melancholy the winter was to bring soon.
Suddenly my wandering senses met something so unusual... i heard my friend, Erica say to me " There is nothing like bad weather, there is just bad clothes" . It was an old Norwegian saying . And i smile to myself . why is it that we fail to appreciate life? why are we so stubborn to think the way we do and never try to meet challenges differently? Is it an attempt to shove ur guilt in someone else's sleeve?would we ever stop by our busy lives to answer such questions?
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
I am back!!!!!
Hey Guys,
I am on the verge of my trip to the land of the midnight sun(Norway)......Days are flyin wid all the visa formalities n stuff....n my other classmates attending class.....There r approx.50 days left for my trip....The worst part of the trip is the part wen u miss ur batch mates n u r totaly aware tht wen u cm bak u will be sittin wid ur juniors.......The feelin runs a chill down the spine....There is nuthin more to pen down n if u people hav to comment or give suggestion do write in....
waitin to hear frm u soon
pak pak
I am on the verge of my trip to the land of the midnight sun(Norway)......Days are flyin wid all the visa formalities n stuff....n my other classmates attending class.....There r approx.50 days left for my trip....The worst part of the trip is the part wen u miss ur batch mates n u r totaly aware tht wen u cm bak u will be sittin wid ur juniors.......The feelin runs a chill down the spine....There is nuthin more to pen down n if u people hav to comment or give suggestion do write in....
waitin to hear frm u soon
pak pak
Thursday, March 1, 2007
Gracias 2007!!!!
Hey
Again I am bak after a long time.....Yesterday was the great show we all waited for i e the cultural performance by our very own kids.....Their show was a wonderful one or put it frankly amazing...The whole crowd was flabbergasted seeing the whole show and the reaction truly brought tears into my eyes.....We always tend to ignore or look down on these kids from the under privileged section.....But yesterday's show proved us all wrong...One thing I hated about the programme or I felt negative was the constant usage of the term' sponsored children from the rajendranagar slum'...It sounded a bit offending to me.....But then sum people nevr change......
luv
pak pak
Again I am bak after a long time.....Yesterday was the great show we all waited for i e the cultural performance by our very own kids.....Their show was a wonderful one or put it frankly amazing...The whole crowd was flabbergasted seeing the whole show and the reaction truly brought tears into my eyes.....We always tend to ignore or look down on these kids from the under privileged section.....But yesterday's show proved us all wrong...One thing I hated about the programme or I felt negative was the constant usage of the term' sponsored children from the rajendranagar slum'...It sounded a bit offending to me.....But then sum people nevr change......
luv
pak pak
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